He will be missed.

Things have been quiet on the blog this week because it’s hard to be ‘upbeat’ and ‘happy’ when you’re dealing with a big pile of stink.

Last Saturday we lost a friend. A good friend and a good man. Someone who we should have taken more time to get to know better before he passed. He left behind a young wife and two young children. He was 42. He was also a fireman.

Yesterday was his wake. Firemen from several local departments were there to pay their respects, it was a sea of blue dress uniforms and a sea of tears. Strong men showing heart felt grief to a stricken family from seeing one of their own taken too soon.

He did not die in a fire, he died from a terrible cancer that just would not let go.

He will be missed.


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28 Responses to “He will be missed.”

  1. beverly Says:

    I’m so sorry for your loss. That’s just too young.

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  2. Carole Says:

    I’m sorry about your friend. Cancer sucks.

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  3. Marina Says:

    ::: hugs ::: Sorry for your loss.

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  4. Heather Says:

    What a sad time. Lots of hugs and prayers going out to you and his family!

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  5. jessie Says:

    Sorry to hear that, Jess.

    I will be down in GB tomorrow and I’m sure I’ll get the full story then.

    Take care, both of you.

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  6. Katy Says:

    Oh Jess.
    There are no words. My heart goes out to all of you, and to his family.

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  7. michelle Says:

    that’s way too young! ::hugs::

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  8. Cynthia Says:

    I’m so sorry, hon. What a terrible thing to have happen, and more so for someone so young.

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  9. carole Says:

    oh, I’m so sorry. That’s just terrible…I hate cancer and how unfairly it seems to target good people.

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  10. Kris Says:

    I’m sorry, big hugs.

  11. AllyB Says:

    So sorry for your loss

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  12. ragan Says:

    That is so very sad. 42 is way too young indeed. Sorry to hear this awful news. :o(
    Take care.

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  13. Kathy Says:

    I’m so sorry.

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  14. Heide Says:

    That just sucks. 42 is too young and his poor children and wife will have a hole in their lives forever. Watching someone die and not being able to do anything about it has got to be one of the most devastating and horrible experiences there is and I hope that you, RR, and everyone else touched by this loss find solace in each other.

  15. Diane Says:

    Sorry to hear about your friend. Thinking of you .

  16. Chrissy Says:

    I’m sorry for your loss.

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  17. Nora Says:

    My condolences. x

  18. maryse Says:

    i’m sorry about your friend. stupid cancer.

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  19. Betty Says:

    I’m so sorry…

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  20. Kelly Says:

    I’m so sorry for your loss.

  21. Sarah Says:

    Oh, Jess. I am so sorry to hear this. I’m thinking of you.

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  22. Risa Says:

    I’m so terribly sorry for your loss. As an almost 42 year old myself, I agree it is far far too early.

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  23. chris Says:

    I’m very sorry for your loss.

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  24. Lizzy B Says:

    I’m so sorry for your loss. Hopefully the widow and family will be comforted by your love and support. Hugs.

  25. Laurie Says:

    I’m so sorry for your loss. Hugs to you.

  26. karin Says:

    I am sorry, Jess.

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  27. Say Says:

    I’m so sorry.

  28. Jessica Says:

    So sorry Jess. The C word is a seriously evil thing. Big hugs and warm thoughts to all.

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